Urgent & emergency
Making Your Home Safer When a Child Is at Risk
Right now, reduce your child's access to firearms, medications, and other dangerous items — locking or removing them is one of the most effective ways to prevent harm. If they are in immediate danger, call 911 or 988.
Do this first
If your child is in immediate danger or has been hurt, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room now. If you need to talk this through or are unsure how urgent it is, call or text 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — free, confidential, and available 24/7 3Ref 3Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) (2024).988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.988 provides free, confidential, 24/7 call/text/chat crisis support through a network of local crisis centers.. While you make that call, do not leave a child who has expressed a clear plan or intent alone.
Why reducing access matters so much
Suicidal crises are often intense but short-lived, and many attempts happen with little planning. Putting time and distance between a person and a dangerous method saves lives. Reducing at-risk individuals' access to lethal means — especially firearms — is an evidence-based prevention strategy 1Ref 1Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health, Means Matter (2024).Lethal Means Counseling.Reducing at-risk individuals' access to lethal means, especially firearms, is an evidence-based suicide-prevention strategy., and the World Health Organization names restricting access to means as one of its core proven interventions 2Ref 2World Health Organization (WHO) (2021).LIVE LIFE: An Implementation Guide for Suicide Prevention in Countries.WHO names restricting access to means as one of its core evidence-based prevention interventions.. The goal is simple: make the most dangerous options harder to reach during this high-risk window.
Firearms come first
Firearms are the most lethal method, so they are the top priority 1Ref 1Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health, Means Matter (2024).Lethal Means Counseling.Reducing at-risk individuals' access to lethal means, especially firearms, is an evidence-based suicide-prevention strategy.. The safest option during a crisis is to store guns outside the home — for example, with a trusted relative, a friend, or a law-enforcement or licensed dealer's storage where allowed. If that is not possible, lock all firearms unloaded in a safe, store ammunition separately and locked, and keep the keys or combination where your child cannot get them. Do this even if you think your child does not know where the guns are.
Medications and other items
Lock up or remove medications — both prescription and over-the-counter — and keep only small amounts accessible. This includes pain relievers, sleep aids, and any psychiatric medications. Also secure or remove sharp objects, ropes and cords, alcohol, and household chemicals where reasonable. You will not be able to remove every risk, and that is okay; the aim is to make the most dangerous items harder to reach quickly during this period 1Ref 1Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health, Means Matter (2024).Lethal Means Counseling.Reducing at-risk individuals' access to lethal means, especially firearms, is an evidence-based suicide-prevention strategy.2Ref 2World Health Organization (WHO) (2021).LIVE LIFE: An Implementation Guide for Suicide Prevention in Countries.WHO names restricting access to means as one of its core evidence-based prevention interventions..
Help is available — and a clinician should be involved
Making the home safer is a bridge, not the whole answer. A clinician can assess how acute the risk is, build a safety plan with your child, and arrange ongoing treatment; pediatricians are specifically asked to identify and help manage at-risk youth 4Ref 4Shain B; AAP Committee on Adolescence (2016).Suicide and Suicide Attempts in Adolescents.Pediatricians should identify and manage at-risk youth.. Keep 988 saved in your phone, and lean on it — it connects you to a network of trained local crisis counselors any time, day or night 3Ref 3Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) (2024).988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.988 provides free, confidential, 24/7 call/text/chat crisis support through a network of local crisis centers.. You are doing the right thing by acting, and support is there for you too.
Common questions
What if I can't get the firearms out of the house tonight?
Lock them unloaded in a safe with ammunition stored separately and locked, and keep keys or combinations where your child cannot access them. Moving them out entirely is safer, but locking is a meaningful step right now [1].
Will removing things upset or anger my child?
Possibly, but it is a normal safety measure, like a seatbelt. You can say plainly that you love them and are keeping them safe while things are hard. Reducing access is one of the most effective ways to prevent harm [1][2].
Is it okay to call 988 even if I'm not sure it's an emergency?
Yes. 988 is for any level of crisis or uncertainty, free and confidential, 24/7, and can help you judge how urgent the situation is [3].
Get help now
- —A specific plan, intent, or access to a method to harm themselves
- —Looking for or handling firearms, pills, or other dangerous items
- —Talking about wanting to die, saying goodbye, or giving away belongings
- —Severe agitation, or being unable to keep themselves safe
If your child is in immediate danger, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room. For free, confidential 24/7 support, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line).
This article is general safety information, not medical advice or a diagnosis; in an emergency contact 911 or 988 and a qualified clinician.
References
- 1.Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health, Means Matter (2024). Lethal Means Counseling. Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health (Means Matter). link ✓Reducing at-risk individuals' access to lethal means, especially firearms, is an evidence-based suicide-prevention strategy.
- 2.World Health Organization (WHO) (2021). LIVE LIFE: An Implementation Guide for Suicide Prevention in Countries. World Health Organization. link ✓WHO names restricting access to means as one of its core evidence-based prevention interventions.
- 3.Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) (2024). 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. SAMHSA (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services). link ✓988 provides free, confidential, 24/7 call/text/chat crisis support through a network of local crisis centers.
- 4.Shain B; AAP Committee on Adolescence (2016). Suicide and Suicide Attempts in Adolescents. Pediatrics. doi:10.1542/peds.2016-1420 ✓Pediatricians should identify and manage at-risk youth.
4 sources, numbered by first appearance. General health information, not medical advice — synthetic demonstration content.