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Teen With OCD: How to Get Help

Unwanted thoughts plus repeated behaviors to ease the anxiety is the pattern of OCD—common, not your fault, and treatable. The first step is telling a trusted adult who can help you get evaluated.

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Dr. Eli Sorenson, PsyD — Adolescent Therapist (OCD)

Working directly with teens to confirm OCD using the CY-BOCS and guide them through exposure and response prevention. Gale can match you with a licensed clinician for a visit.

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What OCD actually is

OCD has two parts. Obsessions are unwanted, intrusive thoughts, images, or urges that show up over and over and make you anxious. Compulsions are things you feel you *have* to do—checking, washing, counting, repeating, arranging, or mental rituals—to make that anxiety ease up 1. The catch is that the relief is temporary, so the loop keeps going. Lots of people without OCD have occasional intrusive thoughts; what makes it OCD is how much time it takes and how much distress and interference it causes 2. Having these thoughts does not make you a bad person—intrusive thoughts are a symptom, not a reflection of who you are.

You can't diagnose yourself (and that's okay)

Online quizzes can't diagnose OCD, and neither can you on your own—plenty of things (regular anxiety, perfectionism, tics) can look similar. A clinician sorts that out in an evaluation, sometimes using a structured rating scale like the CY-BOCS to understand how severe things are 3. So if this article sounds like you, the goal isn't to label yourself; it's to get in front of someone who can actually tell, and who can help.

Telling a trusted adult

This is usually the hardest step and the most important one. You can keep it simple: *"I've been having thoughts I can't shut off, and I feel like I have to do certain things over and over. I think I might need to talk to someone."* A parent, school counselor, coach, or your doctor can help you find a clinician. If saying it out loud feels too hard, writing it in a note or text is completely fine. You don't have to have the right words or be "sure"—you just have to start the conversation.

What treatment is like

The main treatment is a kind of therapy called CBT with exposure and response prevention (ERP): with a therapist, you gradually face the thoughts and situations that trigger your anxiety *without* doing the compulsion, and over time the anxiety fades and the rituals lose their grip. Research consistently shows this reduces OCD symptoms in teens 24. For more severe OCD, a doctor might add a medication called an SSRI; a large study found combining therapy and medication worked better than either alone 56. Treatment isn't about white-knuckling it—it's a structured plan, and it works.

When a clinician helps

A clinician can do what you can't do solo: confirm whether it's OCD using a validated tool like the CY-BOCS, separate it from things that look similar like everyday anxiety or tics, and build a step-by-step exposure and response prevention plan so you're not facing it alone 312. If your OCD is more severe, they can talk with you and your family about whether an SSRI would help 56. They can also coordinate with your school if OCD is hurting your grades or attendance. You deserve that support—reaching out is a strong move, not a weak one.

Common questions

I'm scared to tell my parents. What if they don't get it?

That fear is really common. You can start with whichever adult feels safest—a school counselor, a doctor, a coach—and you can write it down instead of saying it out loud. A counselor can also help you talk to your parents.

Does having scary or 'bad' intrusive thoughts mean something is wrong with me?

No. Intrusive thoughts are a symptom of OCD, not a sign of who you are or what you want. Having them doesn't make you dangerous or bad—it's exactly the kind of thing treatment helps with.

Can OCD actually get better?

Yes. OCD is treatable with therapy (especially exposure and response prevention), medication, or both, and many teens improve a lot. The earlier you get help, the sooner that can start.

Talk to a clinician

Dr. Eli Sorenson, PsyD — Adolescent Therapist (OCD)

Working directly with teens to confirm OCD using the CY-BOCS and guide them through exposure and response prevention. Gale can match you with a licensed clinician for a visit.

Find care →

Reaching out for support

  • —OCD is taking hours a day or causing you to miss school
  • —You feel hopeless, overwhelmed, or like you can't cope
  • —The rituals are causing physical harm, like raw or bleeding skin
  • —You're having thoughts of hurting yourself

If you're thinking about suicide or self-harm, you deserve support right now—call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line), or call 911 if you're in immediate danger.

This article is for general education and is not a diagnosis or a substitute for evaluation by a qualified clinician.

References

  1. 1.National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) (2024). Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH), nimh.nih.gov. link ✓OCD involves obsessions and compulsions, usually starts by adolescence, and is treatable.
  2. 2.American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (AACAP) (2017). Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder In Children And Adolescents (Facts for Families No. 60). American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, aacap.org. link ✓Plain-language description of childhood OCD obsessions and compulsions and effective treatment.
  3. 3.Scahill L, Riddle MA, McSwiggin-Hardin M, Ort SI, King RA, Goodman WK, Cicchetti D, Leckman JF (1997). Children's Yale-Brown Obsessive Compulsive Scale: Reliability and Validity. Journal of the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry. doi:10.1097/00004583-199706000-00023 ✓The CY-BOCS is a validated clinician-rated measure of OCD severity in youth.
  4. 4.Uhre CF, Uhre VF, Lønfeldt NN, Pretzmann L, Vangkilde S, Plessen KJ, Gluud C, Jakobsen JC, Pagsberg AK (2020). Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis: Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy for Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder in Children and Adolescents. Journal of the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry. doi:10.1016/j.jaac.2019.08.480 ✓Meta-analysis: CBT reduces OCD symptom severity in children and adolescents.
  5. 5.Geller DA, March J, and the AACAP Committee on Quality Issues (CQI) (2012). Practice Parameter for the Assessment and Treatment of Children and Adolescents With Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. Journal of the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry. doi:10.1016/j.jaac.2011.09.019 ✓CBT with ERP is first-line; SSRIs/combined treatment for moderate-to-severe pediatric OCD.
  6. 6.Pediatric OCD Treatment Study (POTS) Team (2004). Cognitive-Behavior Therapy, Sertraline, and Their Combination for Children and Adolescents With Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder: The Pediatric OCD Treatment Study (POTS) Randomized Controlled Trial. JAMA. doi:10.1001/jama.292.16.1969 ✓Combined CBT plus sertraline outperformed either treatment alone for pediatric OCD.

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